Small. Fast. Reliable.
Choose any three.

NOT EXISTS
Sqlite is finally a database product that values performance and minimal footprint (disk and memory) above a trashcan strategy that would add whatever feature to make the result so-called 'feature rich', say, a bloated piece of software. Therefore, I would vehemently reject all additions listed above, except for one. It's quite difficult to obtain the result for a correlated 'NOT EXISTS' subquery in any alternative way; which is the choice way to determine a subset of data that doesn't satisfy criteria contained in another table.

In my experience I have found 'NOT EXISTS' (or is it 'NOT IN') to be extraordinarly slow. Being that SQLite provides 'EXCEPT' the much faster construct can be used to the same end (at least it was faster with Oracles's equvalent: 'MINUS', to wit:

	select name,addr from employee where id not in (select id from sales)

becomes

	select name,addr from employee where id in (
		select id from employee
		except
		select id from sales
	)

-- Are you calling Oracle 'a bloated piece of software'?. LOL. I would love to see a comparison of Oracle and SQLite (latest stable or bleeding edge SQLite version Vs Oracle 10g). I would love it. [This comparison idea is as valid as comparing a novel to a short story.] Anyway, SQLite seems a lil' database engine for lil' works. Sorry, not enough for me :). -- Why would anyone compare Oracle to sqlite other than to say "can you add support for this Oracle syntax to make migration between them easier"? -- Someone might mistakenly compare Oracle to SQLite because they fail to comprehend that the two products solve very different problems.

* Ha-Ha-Ha. Be sure I am not dummy users, so I know answers to all questions you asks. I have more than 15 years of db experience. All your blames that I have not take into account something are really foolish! Because let me repeat: I have made the same table with the same fields with the same data in records, and run the same queries on the same hardware in the same clean environment (no other apps was run to eat CPU or disk). And I have not use any tricks like "FIRST_ROWS". Both dbs was on default parameters. You still claim that this is not fair bench ???!!! Tell this to somebody else.